Dear Rad Jesus,
I’m a senior in high school, and lately, I’ve been worried about one of my best friends. We used to be super close, but over the last year, he’s started hanging out with a different crowd and getting into things I know aren’t good for him. He’s missed a ton of classes, and when I reach out, he just shrugs it off or says I’m overreacting. Most of our friends have given up on him, saying it’s his choice to go down this path, but I can’t shake the feeling that he’s just lost right now.
Should I keep trying to bring him back or just let him go like everyone else? I feel like I’m the only one still hoping he’ll turn things around.
- Signed, Worried Friend
Response
Dear WF,
Dude, you’ve got mad love and worry for your buddy, and that’s super rad! Not all peeps hang tight when others ride a gnarly wave, but that's when they really need a buddy who won't bail on 'em.
Picture your buddy as a lone sheep roaming around—not 'cause he's a bad dude, but maybe he's just catching some vibes, feeling a bit adrift, you know? He won't say it, but having someone keeping an eye on him could totally be a bigger deal than he’d ever spill. Keep sending those chill texts or invite him to kick it—no need to preach or try to pull him back hard. Just being there can light his path when he’s ready. And if he’s not vibing yet, no stress; you’re sowing a seed of good vibes for later.
Just remember, being a good friend doesn’t mean getting dragged down. If he’s choosing paths that ain’t your scene, it’s all good—be a buddy without going along with all the craziness. Keep shining bright, even if he’s in a dark spot. One day, he might find his groove again.
Your friend in Stoke,
- Rad
